Ghosting is the f%*king worst.
Problem is, we all do it. Especially on dating apps. We’ve been programmed to try and get as many matches as possible so it's easy to let something fizzle out for something new or never say anything at all.
That’s pretty crappy when you’re on the other end of it though, you’re left wondering and waiting and it’s become the number one complaint on dating apps (even more than dick pics!).
elate is the first app that lets you know when a match moves on, even if they don’t
We set out to make dating app that was different. One that brings respect and mindfulness back to dating by making behaviours like ghosting less common.
One that gives you the time and space to get to know your matches while also letting you know where you stand if they decide to move on, so you’re not left waiting and wondering.
Features that make elate different:
- THREE CHATS AT A TIME - You’re less likely to ghost someone if you're not distracted by constant new matches and messages. It also makes you more selective so you’re less likely to match with someone you never intended to talk to in the first place
- CHAT END UPDATES - Your matches have to free up one of their three spaces to speak to someone new. When they do that, we send you a friendly message to let you know (just in case they didn’t!)
- LESS SUPERFICIAL MATCHING - You’re more likely to ghost someone you have nothing in common with so elate matches you on bios without photos first. Then we show you the best profiles for you based on the personalities you’ve liked.
- PRIVATE FEEDBACK - Every chat ends with private feedback (only elate sees this), so we can find you better dates and limit the serial ghosters and rude pr*%ks