Dating apps are cr*p...so we built a better one

Less swiping. Fewer ghosts. More matches worth meeting.

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The Anti-ghosting dating app

We’re busting ghosts 👻
See how we do it here

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better matches

Quality over quantity

No endless swiping. Get daily recommendations based on looks AND personality.

better chat

Only three chats at a time

Less is more for better conversations and fewer times asking someone what they do for fun.

less ghosting

Anti-ghosting notifications

You'll know if a match moves on. So you're not left wondering and waiting.

FEWER d*ckheads

Feedback on every match

Give private feedback so we can find you better dates and remove the timewasters.

our blog

How Discovery works

We’re all about quality over quantity at elate. We'd prefer to show you a small number of the best profiles each day and then let you get on with your life. That’s where Discovery comes in.

How the Feed works

It's easy to find someone you fancy, harder to find someone you like. The Feed tab is the magic that lets us do both.

Tips For Better Dating Profile Bios

Writing an About You section or answering a profile prompt is hard, but it's worth it for better matches.